Sept 24, 2011

We had a very busy week. Jasmin had her fifth birthday on Thursday. We had a great day. We started the day at Denny's, then got our toes polished. We ate lunch at Burger King. Jasmin played in the play area while I read a book. Then, she had a great time at swim class. After we picked Dylan up from school, I surprised both kids with a horse ride. A friend let us brush, feed, and then ride her horse. The kids had so much fun and have been asking to go back. :) We ended the day at Nick's pizza. Super fun day.

We did Jasmin's birthday party today at my inlaws. The cousins had decorated the house for her. So sweet. She really loved it. We did the usual hanging out and talking. The kids played. Can't say how much I love having all Eric's family together again. After we ate, did presents, and did cake, my nephew Ethan built a fire outside. We sat around and talked around the fire. I almost cried thinking how wonderful it is to have family like this.

I am very fortunate. I get along with each of my brothers/sisters spouses. Same thing on Eric's side. It makes me even sadder sometime to think of my dad who chooses not to include himself in our lives. I know we all make our own choices. I thank God for the family that does want to be a part of us.

Someone recently told me that they are putting their energy and time into the people that do the same for them. Not to say that you cut people off, just that you invest in those who want that investment. I'll have to say that as I get older, I agree with this.